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Barbara Dawn Hallett

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Barbara Dawn Hallett

Place of birth: Benton AK

Religious affiliation: Catholic

My Mother Barbara Hallett passed away at 9:23am December 6th a Saturday Morning She will be miss beyond any measure of this world. She had a unique dynamic spirit like no other, Loving, beautiful, charismatic, determined, head strong, silly, off beat sense of humor, not everyone got the joke at times, a bit cynical and critical. BUT UNDER ALL THE Dust WAS A HEART! I was fortunately blessed to be her daughter, best friend and yes at times we were worst enemies. But once you got past all of that My Mother Loved deep I mean Loved from her core, the depths of her heart was endless. So if she was hurt it went deep as well. She lived with a lot of hurt throughout this life, CHOICES her own and ours, which made it hard for her to share with those she loved the JOY of an open heart. Each of us got glimmers of it “but not one GOT it all” that was her safety net her Protection. She could be hurt quite easy at times, her defense was to hurt back. but that is ok. “She was WHO she was”. Loving her meant you had to be tough for all the rough edges. Overlook the broken edges, and cherish the moments and time.
She was a Woman that if you where honored enough to really get to know her you would NEVER FORGET HER. She is in the loving hands of Jesus, We were blessed to know and love her.

I Love you Mom with everything I am or ever will be. Thank you for being my “Bright Spot” in this world.

She is SURVIVED by Her Eldest Daughter Pamela L. Hinkle, her two adult children Kip Halcomb and Amani Alajou Of Irvine, CA and Barbara’s Younger Daughter (ME) Daphawn “Renee” Wilson, my two Natural adult children Nicole D. Wilson and Travis Wilson-Guerrero as well as my adopted son Ben Nunez all of Riverside CA
Other Family Members Joyce Ivins Companion for 30 years she made a promise and kept it. no matter misery you both put each other through. and Renee’s Ex-husband Bobby L. Guerrero. WE divorced him 16 years ago but we all were still family.

My Mothers lifetime friends for Many years, Braxton, Carol, Rita, Patty, John, Maria (Carman), Edith, Linda and so many more.

We were Privileged to have been in her life and her in ours to share Memories that no one can Steal. It was very hard to watch you breakdown piece by piece, each day but I was with you. She was my treasure and my hero in so many ways, I admired the tinacty and spirit she forged through her life with her hearing disability she refused to be defined by, raised two daughters without Fathers, assisted with her Grandchildren. Behind the Walls was Secrets she held I read her journal she was a Scared, confused, misdirected, misunderstood. Woman. She had been beaten down by her own inability to put a value on herself far beyond money or things. Or to believe that she had the quality to be truly loved. I loved you Mother with a True pure heart without judgments of your reasons. Even in the times we were apart (which were few) my love was never self-serving, just me putting a stop to the drama. I accepted all of you. May not have agreed, but we agreed to disagree… All she ever wanted was Loyalty, Love and security in both. Which I am sure I failed her, so may in the name of Jesus Christ have mercy on us both. I Pray in Gods loving care his love has filled the emptiness that this world never could. I Love you Mother Forever, for always. Thank you for our Yesterdays, our memories shared, stories to tell, todays lessons of truth, your lessons keeps me aware, Our tomorrows reunion in heaven, your loving tender words keep warm in such a cold and heartless world. Rest In Peace My Precious Mother…Muah 🙂

186 Responses

  • Pam Hinkle On

    I had a dream about you my little precious mom. I miss you so much. So many times I just wanted to toss something out there to you to get a genuine concern about me opinion" I miss those. I miss you. I wish you were here.

  • Pam Hinkle On

    Hello my lil mom. I was thinking about you tonight. I always think about you.. One thing I do know is that you loved deep and you loved true. I may not have always nor have I ever pretended that, I was "the perfect daughter" but, I have always loved you, respected you and never used you. That I can go to my grave knowing. In Jesus's wonderful name. Amen. I miss you my mom. As long as I walk this earth I always will.

  • Pam Hinkle On

    Hi again my lil mom. this week has been a decent week, some hitches here and there but over-all God is shining down on me. I know you know where I work, I know you know that "I am right in my element" I've been blessed to have made it through without you here to encourage me through it We are always stronger than we think we are when we are on the right path and in Gods plan for our lives. No doubt, I am. Love you honey, always will. See you soon.

  • Pam Hinkle On

    It's Saturday night. Not feeling well, I miss you mom, wish you were here. I love you. Always will. People say that the world is falling apart" I disagree, the world 's pieces are falling right into Gods plans. Love you honey. See you soon. @>----

  • Pam Hinkle On

    Happy Sunday my lil mom,. I always think about you especially on Sunday's when I see your favorite pastor. You know the one, we used to always talk about his Sermon on Sundays. I was happy to do that. I miss you my honey, even though I didn't like the way you took things or ultimately felt and did things, I understood your reasoning though I wouldn't agree I respected your right to disagree. Now that you are gone, I still hear youx words like I did all my life, whether I resisted them or not? they are still implanted in my spirit giving me guidance through life's challenges and joys., you have helped me to live life and be a stronger person even though many times I would have preferred to fight it all the way. I do get to lay my head down and know "there are NO DO OVERS, and you only live once, if you do it right the first time, you don't need to live another here on earth" Who would want to! The trick is learning that early in life. and follow through with plans. It's the side stepping that messes things up every single time. I Love you my mom. If you are able to look down I'm blowing you a kiss! Thanks for being here on earth with us for as long as you were. Sorry" it wasn't a Cabaret" but, it is on going faith and strength that keeps us, this is the lessoned learned. until I see you again. @>---- @>-----@>-----


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